Not necessarily

Most of the time, we just think that it’s best to be strong. Whenever something’s up and put ourselves in vulnerable positions, by nature we try our utmost self-defending and self-healing ourselves, so quickly it’s almost impossible to comprehend. And that’s why it’s solely just impossible. Make-believe, some would say.

Cos what I realized is that most of the time we just try to appear strong, building layers and layers of denial right from the start. At the end of the day.. no, we don’t have to be strong. Cos by the time we try to see things on the flip side, we drop all the denials and accept that we are so vulnerable we are actually the sitting ducks. But that’s okay. It’s just what we call acceptance. Even where in reality, more often than not, there’s pretty much nothing we can do to console ourselves, not even a tiny winning point that we have to brag and boost our position in the situation, where until one point, we realize that the only thing we can do is to gaze melancholically out the window (yea, we do) and nothing but be pleased with just the seamy situation.

Well, that’s the truth. Blatant, but that’s how we’re really strong. That’s solely how we’re a step ahead and let the healing process begin.