talkin' talk.

Not trying to freak myself out, but exam’s just a week away. By right, I should be studying by this time around. But let’s just put all those things aside for the moment, and I’ll deal with them tomorrow, afterwards. Sounds promising enough, eh? Well, more like.. sounds soothing enough for myself. =P

Anyway, when was the last time you had a very good talk with someone? Well, any conversation will do. You know, a very good talk with your friend (or anybody) over a cup of coffee, where you talk about your life, about his notion or hers, or anybody’s or anything. The kind of talk that keeps you engaged, talking and talking and you have yourself constantly prompted by something about that other person which you can always relate with. Well, it just feels good, don’t you think?

So, I was craving for one today. And what first came into my mind was to have a dinner with friends. I texted two of them, but eventually only one was available, and it happened to be the one that I haven’t met in quite a long time. Here’s what I noticed though.. When you haven’t met a friend in a very long time, apparently your meeting tends to turn into a reenactment of your past conversations, which by the way, resembles those past conversations very much, like.. “So, how long did you say that you were there last month?”, followed by, “Oh, it was your cousin’s birthday party, if I’m not mistaken?”. And there was a lot of, “You did say that you were having holiday at that time, rite?” and much of, “What was it again?”.
And oh.. lots of this too: “oh ya I remember it now!”
See?? Haha.. =P

Well, don’t get me wrong, okay.. It’s not like it happens all the way throughout the dinner. The thing is, how would you have that nice talk if all you do is fumbling through your mind which you’ve kept deep inside your mind-drawer months ago? And every time there’s something “hot” enough to talk about, we need to re-explain the situation, and that just knocks the whole thing off course, ended up talking about something else. I’m not even engaged in the conversation for every 3 minutes, busy reminiscing what it was that sounded familiar yet was forgotten about.
I’m a Libra, okay.. And just like any other Libras, we forget a lot! A LOT. =P

Well, now it seems that it’s very hard to have that nice talk again. It’s just hard to find someone to have with. I guess I had it like two months ago, and that was the last of it. O well..
Here’s the thing though.. even if you’ve had it with someone, it doesn’t mean that you’ll have it again with him the next time you meet, or any other next times. It’s just that, when you’re bound to have it, the two of you just click at that very moment.
It’s like the mood just kicks in, and that’s when you make the most of it.